"...and tonight I’d really love it if we tried Y."

The biggest "makeover" tool you have is your focus. Put down the phones, lock the door, and be ruthlessly present with each other.

"...because it makes me feel so connected to you."

The quickest way to better sex is a GPS for your partner. Use "The Sandwich Method": "I love it when you do X..."

Routine is the enemy of desire. You don’t need a hotel room; just get out of the bedroom. Use the rug in the living room, the kitchen counter, or even just flip your orientation on the bed. A new physical perspective triggers a "novelty" response in the brain, making the experience feel fresh. 2. Prioritize "Responsive" Desire

Great sex tonight starts with a text this afternoon. Build anticipation by sending a suggestive message or simply telling your partner one specific thing you love about their body. Building the "mental fire" throughout the day makes the physical transition much easier. 4. Close the "Orgasm Gap"