The memoir is structured around the "Before" and "After" of Jacob's collapse. It avoids the tropes of "trauma porn" by focusing on the practical, often messy realities of caregiving and the psychological toll of a loved one's personality changing after brain injury.
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The book asks what remains of a relationship when one partner no longer knows who the other is. The memoir is structured around the "Before" and